I WANT TO KNOW IF I AM EVER GETTING BACK WITH MY BOYFRIEND HE LOVE AND LOVE HIM BUT THERE IS A GIRL IN THE WAY THAT HES TALKING TO BUT AT THE SAME TIME HE TELLS CRYING HE MISSES ME AND LOVE ME I WANT HIM BACK AND THAT OTHER GIRL IS JUST RTING TO HURT ME SHE HATES ME

Okay, here’s the deal.

This may sound a bit harsh, but the simple fact is that the boy is stringing you along. If he loves you and wants to be with and cries that he misses you, then it should be very easy for him to decide that he wants to be with you.

But if he says all these other things while still flirting, dating, or sleeping with another girl, he is the one you should be mad at, not her. This is a classic case of wanting his cake and eating it too.

If he thinks he can string you along, or better yet, have you both at the same time, your guy will do it. Most guys will do it. And, if he is saying these things to you, he might be saying the same things to her just to see if he can keep you both.

It is possible that she really hates you too and is trying to use him to hurt you, but he’s the one letting her get away with it. He does not have to talk with her and then come crying to you. He is his own person and can decide for himself whether to talk to her or be with her. If he is deciding to talk to her and then cry to you, he’s playing a game and you need to be strong enough to let him know that he needs to either be with you or move on.

That can be the hardest thing to say and mean, but if he loves you and it is meant to be, it will help him see the error of his ways.