I want to break up with my boyfriend because he is starting to try and control my life and telling me who I can/can’t be friends with and what I can/can’t wear and telling me in front of 4 people that I’m acting slutty just because one of my guy friends called. He knew when we started going out that most of my friends are guys and how I like to dress nice and go out every now and then but now he’s starting to act like I’m a possesion instead of his girlfriend and I’m afraid that if I break up with him he might try to take custody of and keep me from our daughter. Is there a spell that could help me out with breaking up with him and keeping my daughter without having to worry about losing my daughter? I need something that will work but something that is easy to get ingredients for because I live in a very small town that doesn’t have much stuff I am able to find for spells. I know it is not the best to use spells for this type of thing but I want to break up with my boyfriend and be able to keep my daughter with the least amount of trouble possible and not having to use the goverment is I can help it.

Hi–

What you are describing is the very beginning of controlling and abusive behaviors. Does your town have a domestic violence shelter? I understand that you are trying not to get other people involved, but if he is being abusive (verbally and emotionally), you need to be able to document that and protect yourself and your daughter.

I know it sounds drastic, but men who try to control their spouses/girlfriends with this type of behavior are not above trying to use your daughter to hurt you. If he is already treating you this way and you are supposedly happy together, imagine what he will be like when you are apart.

Since he is your little girl’s father, you need to be prepared to take legal action to fight him. He may try to claim that you are being “slutty” and therefore are a bad mother or he may simply try to take your little girl. For her sake, you need to know your rights and take advantage of them.

A simple protection spell cast with sandalwood incense will help against whatever spiritual battles he tries to cause you, but the physical, rela world batles like custody are not something to mess with. You are much better off finding out where you can get help and what your legal rights are before he tries to take her. Find an attorney and get custody papers written up now. Then you can break up with him.