“I want to want love. Right now I don’t. But the thing is that I miss it. I want love more than anything but I’m left with a stringer of one night stands and what scares me is that it is okay with me. I don’t want to be a spinster. What I want is to want to be in love. Can you help me? I don’t have much money but isn’t everyone entitled to love someone?”

You seem a little conflicted in your question, first saying that you want to want love and don’t want it and later saying that you do want it. But, that’s okay.

It is vey easy for us to fall into society’s demands about what we do and when we do it. You don’t mention your age, but it is perfectly valid for women of any age to express a fear about spending the remainder of their lives alone. However, choosing to be alone for now, and explore your sexuality with various partners, is perfectly fine so long as you are doing it in a safe manner.

Just because you may not be looking for your lifetime love right now, doesn’t mean you won’t find him somewhere along the way. In fact, often when people are actively looking for that “Special Someone”, they put so much pressure on themselves and anyone they date that they scare off potential love interests.

I’m not sure why you mention your financial status, but I assure you it has nothing to do with the ability to find love.

For now, I recommend that you relax and enjoy your life. Being happy with yourself is one fo the best ways to attract a life-long love.

Then, when you are ready to settle down, find a good love spell and cast it on yourself, letting the universe know you are ready to love and be loved in return. In the meantime, think about what you really want in a mate and make a list of those qualities. It can help you to put into perspective what you are looking for and remind you what is important.