I have had several dreams involving an actor since the end of February. In

the dreams, he is interacting with me. All of them seemed designed to get my attention. In one

dream he had sex with me. In another he grabbed me out of a line of women in my Grandfather’s house

and starting dancing with me. In a third, he slapped my rear. In a fourth, I went crying to me and

I’m in his arms saying “I got you.” Now, this last dream he is just sitting there. He looks at me

from across the room but that’s it. I have been trying like crazy to figure it out. I’d love to

think that I am going to meet him but reality doesn’t seem to support me on this. So how do I

interpet this? And how do I control my dreams so that I actually go to him or take his hand when he

offers it to me?

Hello there my dear,

What it sounds like you are interested in is called lucid dreaming… which really has very little

to do with Wicca, witchcraft, or magic at all….

Here is what our old friend wikipedia has to say on the matter:

A lucid dream is a dream in which the person is aware that he or she is dreaming while the dream is

in progress, also known as a conscious dream. When the dreamer is lucid, he or she can actively

participate in the dream environment without any of the inhibitions or limitations that otherwise

would feel natural to persons who incorrectly believe they are in the “real” waking world. Lucid

dreams can be extremely real and vivid depending on a person’s level of self-awareness during the

lucid dream.[1]
A lucid dream can begin in one of two ways. A dream-initiated lucid dream (DILD) starts as a normal

dream, and the dreamer eventually concludes that he or she is dreaming, while a wake-initiated

lucid dream (WILD) occurs when the dreamer goes from a normal waking state directly into a dream

state with no apparent lapse in consciousness.
Lucid dreaming has been researched scientifically, and its existence is well established.[2][3]

Scientists such as Allan Hobson, with his neurophysiological approach to dream research, have

helped to push the understanding of lucid dreaming into a less speculative realm.

There are many other sites out there dedicated to the subject and many source books to study up on

if this is something you are interested in….