this may sound a little silly, but please bear with me. there is
a show titled Ranma 1/2. the main character, Ramna, fell into a
magick spring and was cursed. his curse is this: whenever he is
splashed with cold water, he becomes a girl. warm water will turn him back into a boy. please tell me if you know of any way that i can make something similar happen to me, or of any way that i can transform my body into that of a girl temporarily or permanantly. even legends that are relevant will help.
thank you
Kam
Kam–
Transforming your gender from male to female is not as easy as falling into a curse or finding the right spell. This is a life-altering decision that can bring heartache and pain or pure joy. Either way, it is something that you must think about, pray about and ultimately, consider trying without a radical transformation before you choose it as a lifestyle.
I have a dear friend who is transgendered and simpkly making the societal adjustments to living as woman has been stressful and discouraging, not to mention explaining to his family. Many men do not understand the true impact of living as a woman until they do it for some period of time, even a single night.
For my friend, he did not understand the inherent dangers women face when walking alone at night or going to the “wrong side of the tracks.” And, he did not realize how much more dangerous those things can be for the transgendered.
If you feel that you would like to spend part or all of your life as a woman, please contact a local support group for the transgendered and find a good counselor. Be sure when you are looking for a counselor that you can find one who is willing to help you with the transformation issues, not someone who will simply judge you and try to change your mind.
This will not be an easy process for you. My friend has lost many of his friends over the issue, been expelled from his church and had his parents tell him not to “corrupt” his younger brothers with his way of life. A counselor and a support group from a transgender alliance can help you dealw itht he pain these things will cause and help you find happiness in your identity, no matter what you choose.
Good luck!
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Hi Kam, Rose shared some good advice, but I can comment from a personal standpoint. I am a M2F Transsexual Witch. Without going into a lot of explaination, I will tell you that, if you truly are having gender issues, contact a Transgender support group and if at all possible, a QUALIFIED gender therapist. If you are unable to find any in your area, search Transgender online, and you will find many sites which deal with it. You may even try Transgender Pagan. I would like to give you one important piece of advice. There are many people in TG chatrooms and such, that will give you bad advice and wrong information. For some reason, there are people who will try to rush your process, and many times that will lead to alot of the heartache Rose is talking about. If you do choose to eventually transition, please do it on your own terms, and not until you feel ready. It is hard to fully explain things in a forum such as this, but in any case, I wish you all the best in the world, and I hope that you will find the happiness that you are seeking. Brightest Blessings, Astara*