I m sorry to tell you this, but you cannot use magic to make someone fall in love with you. You can use some of the spells to make yourself more attractive. You can also use spells to make yourself more confident. I will be happy to share several of these with you. Keep in mind that you want the person to fall in love with you, not to be forced or tricked into loving you. That sort of love doesn t survive. It is much better to find a wonderful person and falling in love with one another although I thoroughly agree that it isn t easy.

A Ritual To Be Seen More Attractively

Fill your bathtub with water and scatter some fresh rose petals in it. Light some vanilla candles and/or incense. Lie back and relax in the water, meditate on the image you would like to project and say these words:
“Earth, Air, Fire, and Sea
Let the Goddess’s beauty shine through me.”
This is another spell that I want you to try. Again, do this repeatedly. After a week or two, see how you feel as you say the words. Do you begin to see yourself in a different light? Other people will too.

Another thing that I think will really help you to find someone to love, is by loving yourself. Make the effort to love yourself and feel good about yourself. Then when you meet the right person you will be in a great position to fall in love and possibly start a life together.

A Spell to Love Yourself

You will need:
a mirror, other than a compact
2 candles, of any color

Pink is a good color choice, for friendship and romance. Place the mirror on a surface where you can sit comfortably. Place a candle on either side of the mirror. Light the candles, remove or dim any artificial light. Sit in front of the mirror, and gaze at your reflection. Notice all your good qualities, and focus on them. Say aloud how wonderful each feature is. Notice their shape, and color, and speak of them aloud. Do this with all your best features. Smile at yourself. Tell yourself how wonderful you are. State all the positive aspects of your personality, name all the beautiful traits, things that make you special. Speak of them aloud, and with confidence. With practice, and by repeating the ritual, this will become easier to do, and your self-confidence will improve. Say these words, or something similar that suits you:

“I am beautiful outside,
I am wonderful within.
I am special unto myself,
so let the love come in.
Negative thoughts, they vanish,
I now toss them out.
Negative feelings, be banished,
To let my love shine out.”

Repeat this, at least five times per sitting. Perform the ritual often, once a day is preferred. You may reuse the candles, but do not blow them out. This is an insult to the Air and Fire elements. Use a snuffer, or wet your fingers and pinch them out. Spells are more effective when made personal, so change the chant to suit you as often as you like. You can also make an attraction charm to wear. Simply find a chain with a pendant that suits you, and drape it over your mirror while doing your spell. The charm gains strength, as you continue to work the spell. In time, you will see a noticeable difference in the number of people who approach you, attracted to your confidence.