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Is there a love spell that can bring my ex-boyfriend back?

Category: Love Spells

Rose can you help me.

I just started getting into black magic and that stuff,do you have a really great love spell, which can bring my ex-boyfriend back to me? He doesn’t want me back, he’s really stubborn. He doesn’t have a girlfriend now, and he hasn’t had one since I left him. That was almost 3 years ago. I don’t know what’s wrong with him. Sometimes he’s so depressed, but he doesn’t want a girl or even me to calm him down, how can I make it so he falls in love with me? I really love him.

First let me say that I am not a person who ever tells anyone what to do - I can only give you advice based on my system of beliefs - and what I think is right and wrong.

Let me touch on a little morality issue here before I give you a little age old advice.

As many of us know, one of the first laws or rules in most of the Witchcraft paths (and nearly all nature based Magick belief systems) is, ‘An it harm none’. Basically, the idea is - no matter what you do with your Magick (or in life in general), never do harm to another.

And as if that wasn’t enough to deter people from doing harm, the powers that be devised a little thing called ‘karma’, it’s kind of like a law in physics that I learned so long ago in high school.

‘For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction’.

So, if I put my hands on a wall and push, the same amount of pressure I put on the wall, is put on my hand.

It’s the same with Magick. If do a ritual, or cast a spell, to bring something good into someone’s life (coming from a place of love in my heart), the energy I send out to perform the miracle (whether it is good luck for my mom, or a healing for my sister, etc.) will also come back to me. It won’t necessarily be the same type of energy, usually you will just notice that really good things start happening to you, and the more good you do, the more little miracles start ‘popping up’ in your life.

And if the energy you send out is negative in any way (which is where I think your question is leading, more on that in a second) - this energy will ‘bounce back’ to you, and you will notice bad luck will begin to find you.

You see, our wonderful universe has a way of keeping things in balance,both in the physical world, and in the world of Magick.

Sorry I got off on that tangent, now that I’ve laid the groundwork, I can answer your question - or at least give you some advice.

If you cast a love spell on your boyfriend, you will be affecting his ‘free will’ to do as he chooses in life. The Magick will influence his ‘decision’ to fall in love with you, or move on.

As a human being, the free will to do as we choose is one of the most sacred things we have in life. And by casting a love spell on a specific person you are taking something sacred away from them. Their freedom of choice. And this is a very negative Magickal action.

And that means, you will suffer negative karma coming right back to you, in ways you never expected.

Do love spells cast on specific people work? Oh yes they do, definately, (I have seen it many times as a young Witch growing up) - but the karma that has always come back to the person has been almost unbearable to watch.

If I were you, I would NEVER cast a love spell on a specific person. If you do this, and your boyfriend falls in love with you, the karma is going to come at you full force. Here are the possibilities (and what I have seen happen…)

Things may be great for a week or two, but his spirit will grow restless,he will begin to get irritable and frustrated, and he won’t know why. As time goes on, he may even get verbally (or eventually) physically abusive towards you.

I’m not saying that he will do these things, but I have seen it happen before when specific person love Magick is involved.

Your life will be turned upside down, Anonymous, and I hope you don’t think that you can ‘handle’ anything that karma throws back at you. You have no idea how it will negatively effect your life. The law of Karma will make SURE that the ‘prize’ is not worth the negativity that floods into your life.

Here’s what I would do instead.

Go through my 7 day mini course (it’s a 2 second free sign up on the blog) and find your place of peace. Find your sacred space, and go through the exercises.

Look inside of yourself at what you really need in life right now. Cast a self love spell (I love self love spells, and guarantee you will feel wonderful!). If you still feel you want love in your life, then you can cast a general love spell - not on your boyfriend specifically - but in a general way. As you are casting, think about the qualities you want in the person you eventually fall in love with, not a specific name, not a specific person.

And release the energies of the spell into the cosmos with the goal of opening the doors of true love in your life. Then, true love will find you, Anonymous. I have no doubt.

And who knows, it may be that the universe intends for your boyfriend and you to be together forever, but you didn’t effect his ‘free will’ with Magick.

But my guess is, the Magick will bring someone very special into your life when you least expect it - and he’ll be everything you ever dreamed of, and your boyfriend will move on in his life, and find happiness, and get over his depression…

All I am asking is for you to let the Universe, and the Divine decide what is in store for you and your boyfriend, don’t try to control it, because you will suffer bad karma.

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The answer to "Is there a love spell that can bring my ex-boyfriend back?"

Question asked on June 2, 2006at 1:01 pm:: Comments (20)

Is there a spell to make someone like. cuase me and my gf want to be together but her parents hate me becuase the midstakes i made in the past.

Posted by: Jesse on June 12, 2006 at 8:55 am

Hi, I am haveing trouble with boys. Every time someone likes me they either move or start hateing me for no good reason! Is there a curse on me or something? How could i find out if there is?

Posted by: Jesse on June 15, 2006 at 9:32 am

My daughter is alway angry to me. I was accident it. I was fix something the window. She could blow to me. I try fix it. I was made mistake. I was mood myself. She alway mad at me. I was leave her. I say forget it.

Posted by: Loriann on June 15, 2006 at 4:32 pm

Two years ago I cast a love spell on a girl, who in no time at all fell in love with me (or fell in love with the feelings she felt inside). As mentioned, this came back to me ..in FULL forse and how?. Panic Attacks. Yes I suffered two full years after.

Posted by: david Elliott on June 16, 2006 at 3:32 pm

Thank you, Rose, for discussing the ethics of love spells in your answer, and the importance of respecting the free will of others.

With the myriad of ads like “Find Love Miracles Here - Get your love back immediately, 3,000+ helped with these spells” available on the internet, too often people seem to believe it’s perfectly okay to mess with someone’s free will and “make” them come back or “make” them like/love you.

Bright blessings,
Tirya

Posted by: Tirya on July 8, 2006 at 6:53 am

Hey my ex and me broke up and she is playing alot of games one minute she loves me and the next she is mad at me .. she tells all her friends that she loves me but she wont say it to my face … what can i do to get her back because i really love her and i know she still loves me .. please help me

Posted by: Brandon on July 12, 2006 at 3:56 pm

Hi Adriana,
My question is it best not to direct the spell you are casting towards a specific person but to let the Universe takes it course even if it’s in another direction. I have been with my boyfriend now for 6 years. The problems we were having stemmed from outside meaning problems with my son and dealing with his ex-wife. We were constantly arguing about the things my son was doing and werent willing to do. We have yet to be in this relationship just by ourselves with no drama. My son just got a job but still pay much but it’s a job and the ex-wife has been gone but my son is still here not living with us but close to us. I have done some many different spells just trying to make this relationship work. We get along a lot better now but it’s still not where and the way I want it to be. So what do you suggest that I do and how can you help me. I wanted to purchase your homekit but I just cant afford it because I lost my job and have yet to find one. I tried a couple of the money spells but they didnt work. I need help. Thanks

Posted by: Jackey on October 14, 2006 at 12:51 pm

Hey, i want to get my ex boyfriend back. I really love him and sometimes he calls me, but I don’t answer because I’m scared what it is about. He is with his new girlfriend, he cheated on me with her, because he said that she loved him more then i did. ((she is his ex gf now gf again.)) anyways, the fact is, i really love him and them two just don’t work and i really have strong feelings for him. we belong together much more then them two do! I just want him for the rest of my life. If there is a nice easy spell i can read and understand and have the supplies right in my household. I would love that. I can’t really go out to by stuff like this, my mom would think I’m weird, more then she already does. Haha. But anyways, on with my story. I really miss jorge and i really love him and i just think we belong and i’m pretty sure we do belong. I’m a Scorpio I believe we have the strongest feelings on stuff like this then any other sign. I hope you can help me get him back. It would me so much to me!

Posted by: chelsea on November 22, 2006 at 3:33 pm

i have a picture of him and i would to know if i can get him back i havea nice recent full body pix of him is there a chant or even candle shant for him to come back to me asap i love him and i miss him so much plese help me do you need his b-date or his whole name help me pleae i am begging and pleading with you i love him and i need him back in my life i would anything and everything for this man i want to be in my life forever and ever

Posted by: natalia on February 1, 2007 at 2:28 pm

hi
the doctors say i am depressed because of my marriage arranged with someone i dont know from abroad… i dont like him and things are not working out between us. i want to finish with him but i am scared of my parents, what if they take me back abroad again.
i have a ex-boyfriend who i have seen before my marriage and finished him because my parents took me abroad, he knows i am married but i really want him back in my life! i dont think he would want to but to get him i will finish my marriage with my husband for him. please show me way round to it. email me asap

thanks

Posted by: sham on June 27, 2007 at 4:36 am

Hey, just wanted to say thanks a lot! I just happen to land on this page looking for a love spell and after reading this. I feel like finding a spell to help me. Help me be happy and not play with the future of another person and my. Thanks!

Posted by: Shirley on August 17, 2007 at 9:58 am

Hi, I carefully read your advice about messing with one’s free will, what if i now he stills loves me or that he once loved me? is there any spell without interferring with his free will that i can make him see that we are better off back together again?

Posted by: christina on November 25, 2007 at 7:56 pm

i dont like my (sort of) ex boyfriend i just get really mad that he doesnt like me anymore because i feel cheated out so i want to somehow ‘get’ him again but i just dont know how. ouija boards dont really help unless im around him and i get possessed or something but i just dont know what to do. it is really starting to bug me..

Posted by: adrielle sigler on February 7, 2008 at 12:19 pm

Hey i no that it hurt u because i was wit my boyfriend for 7 months he cheated on me and that shit hurted i think about him a lot sometimes i wonder if thinks about me he allways lied like he didnt fuck around wit otha females, but all i can tell u be strong for get about his no good ass

Posted by: Robin on April 18, 2008 at 2:58 am

looking for a love spell

Posted by: Joy on June 14, 2008 at 6:41 pm

looking for a love spell

Posted by: Joy on June 14, 2008 at 6:41 pm

I lost my virginity to my ex boyfriend like a year ago. We’re good friends now and We still love each otha alot but he doesnt want to be with me anymore. What do i do to make him to wanna get back with me? I really love him alot.

Posted by: Sylvia on July 13, 2008 at 12:39 pm

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Posted by: Reboxetine. on July 15, 2008 at 3:39 pm

Ive waited four m0nths f0r my ex to kum bake i was t0ld threw tha cards and sykics that were goin to be togather again but waitin is hare. Ive already lit tha .ven a mi. Candles. Do u have a certain chant i can say wen i sit bef0r them

Posted by: Joe on July 31, 2008 at 11:28 am

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