Dear Rose,
I am an athlete and there is a woman that I train with on a daily basis. The trainer is my boyfriend. This woman has been oogling him since before I even met him and now that we have been dating for the past two years she is always trying to show her affection for him and convince him that she deserves a chance with him. When I came to learn this I approched her and requested that she stop. I was respectful and humble in my request, and I also made it clear thatI was standing my ground. She has taken much offence to my action and she is denying all of her attempts. Now she is going to the lengths of calling me on a regular basis with sarcastic and rude comments or leaving me text messages on my phone with warnings. She has made training a very hostile and aggresive an my nerves are always tied up. I feel sick to my stomach before training every day, and it’s also making things difficult in my relationship. The stress is starting to effct me in many ways. I try to meditate on making myself stronger and ignoring her ways but she is being hurtful and vengful now. How can I make her go away? How can I make her stop? How can I nullify her negativity. Should I just do the “protection from enemies” spell that I found on your site?

Thanking you in advance for your gracious help.

Best Regards,
Jessie

Merry Meet, Jessie!

My, the lady in question sounds persistently vindictive and shows no signs of letting up! Her harassment of you is clearly causing you a large amount of strain. The spell for “protection against enemies” on my site is a very good spell indeed. However, I think that you need a slightly different spell, given the current situation. The spell I am offering is like a ‘psychic restraining order’ and should bind her effectively. The spell was written by Silver Ravenwolf and I have used it before with great success.

Binding Spell: Psychic Restraining Order

(Remember to cast a circle before doing the spell)

Time

Fourth Quarter Moon

Ingredients

• 7” length of pipe
• 2 Caps to fit over the two ends of the pipe
• Paper
• White Candle
• Black Candle
• A Nail
• Coffee Grounds (7 teaspoons)
• A Fresh Egg

A picture of the woman who is harassing you. If you do not have one her full name on a piece of paper will do just fine.

Method

After casting the circle, cleanse and consecrate all the items you will be using and charge them with your intent to bind the negativity projected towards you by this person. Place the items on your altar.

Light the black candle, asking Spirit to banish all negativity from your life.

Light the white candle, asking spirit to bring peace and harmony to your life.

Seal one end of the pipe. Put the picture (or the full name paper) of the woman into the pipe, saying:

“You have begun your descent.”

Pour the coffee grounds on top. Say:

“The darkness you have created is bound to you.

I do not own your darkness.

You own your darkness.

You may no longer share this darkness with me or others.”

Place the egg on top. Say:

“As this egg rots, so shall your negative energy be destroyed, and your evil shall be banished. The process begins now!”

Stick the nail into the egg, saying:

“This spell is sealed!”

Cap the pipe.

Carefully seal with wax from the black candle.

Bury off your property, preferably close to a crossroads.

This spell will bind this woman, without causing harm to her and subsequently without causing harm to you.

Blessed Be!